Sunday, August 26, 2007

An Ode to Izzy

Izzy was a splendid car
She drove Rachel near and far
But Tulsa drivers aren't too keen
On what "yield" might actually mean
It left her with a bit more than a scratch
And our dearest Izzy met her match

Through endless corn fields and mountains climbed
Faithfully Izzy served her time
Memories made and memories lost
What she's made of surpasses cost

So here's to Izzy, the green machine
In my book, you're super keen

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You probably think I'm odd for naming my car, but that little sedan got me through about 20,000+ miles of road trips, late night Walmart runs and positive bliss. New beginning, new car.

Here we go. May Izzy rest in pieces.

Sunday, August 19, 2007

Halting Moments

It was a hazy evening and the sun was steadily working its way into the southwestern corner of the sky. Things were moving. Life was in full swing. My first week of work was behind me and I was feeling good.

Then it happened, all too quickly. Or was it slowly?

A large black pickup truck pulled out in front of me. I slammed on the brakes. The sound of my own tires screeching seemed peripheral, like the sound of people's voices when you're starting to fall asleep. Time proceeded both more quickly and more slowly in those few seconds. And the only thing I could think was, "How hard will we hit? How much will this hurt?"

The sound of the crash will never leave me. The feeling of being jerked forward and backward in the same second lingers still. I have a hard time remembering the first few minutes after the impact. All I remember was scrambling for my phone and (oddly enough) my keys, which were in the ignition all along. The haze of the 104 degree weather now matched my state of mind.

One set of motions came to a halt and a new set of motions commenced. Paper work. Phone calls. Difficult insurance agents. Police reports. Asking for rides. None of this was my fault, but I had the most difficult tasks to complete to make things right. How backward can we be? It felt like my wings got clipped, and I fought against self-pity and anger at the bitter irony of it all. But through it all, God has worked things for the good and taught me a lesson in humility.
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The campus was quiet as I walked. People came and went, moving about their day. I imagine they had plenty of things to do and places to be. I was no exception. And then I saw them. Arm in arm, happily in love. It caught me off guard.

I felt my heart beating. I was keenly aware of a particular pain inside my chest. It was not a physical pain...it was something much deeper. Disappointment, perhaps. Nagging questions. Feeling discarded. Pushed aside for the next best thing. He seemed to have no problem moving on.

I looked down and pretended not to see them. I don't know if he saw me. I prayed he didn't. I was taken aback at my reaction and the last thing I wanted to do was pretend like everything was alright with me.

I just don't want to face this alone.

And I felt Him near. He drew me to His side and whispered, Don't look at them. Look at Me. That doesn't matter. What matters is you and Me. It's you. And Me. Just stay close to Me.

Somehow, in the midst of my battle, He brought me to a place of rest.

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I fight it sometimes...staying in one place for too long. But it's now I realize that my true fight is to rest. God is trying to get me to settle down. To be still long enough to actually see the place I am in. To be quiet and peaceful and to breathe. Why does humanity struggle so...just to rest? What should come naturally now seems forced. What should never be natural now seems commonplace. It's become a must. A right. A part of life.

No more.

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Often times all we need is a halting moment...one that stops us dead in our tracks. One that takes away our very breath. One that comes at us as quickly and powerfully as the jarring impact of two cars colliding. An encounter and a feeling that reminds us how desperately human we are. And how close He is to those who need His comfort. And as we begin to recognize these moments for the truth they hold...maybe, just maybe, we'll begin to see the substance of which this Kingdom is made.

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